These days a lot of focus is put on fathers who are unfit to parent or who have left their children behind. But there are many mothers who do the same. The norm that determines whether to take care of their children is the same as that of men. in the legal sense. In a moral sense it should be the same for both, but many have different rules for mothers than they do for fathers. Moreover, many expect different from their parents. That being said, the following criteria are the writer’s opinion in deciding that the mother is unfit.
Let’s start with the obvious abuse. A cursed mother is a foolish parent. It can be mentally or physically abusive. Either way, it must be defined as a suitable parent if he harms his children. A fit mother is not hurt, a fit mother does not insult, and a fit mother is kind and loving. He is not cruel, violent or having intercourse with children. These are both moral and legal criteria.
Another thing that a mother can do that is inappropriate is a little more difficult to determine. In the moral and legal arena, there are many gray areas. Negligence is what I’m talking about. Some mothers think it’s good to sit in bed all day, talking on the phone or watching television. while the children take care of themselves. Mothers think it is good to entertain guests all day without always being with their children. This leads to unfinished homework, missing teeth, no food, dirty laundry, untidy hair and much more. Now, in most states, the mother’s sole responsibility is to care for the very demanding child. In this case I think it is different from the law. A mother must do everything she can to discipline, nurture, clean, teach, conceive and bring up her children. If she doesn’t do these things, she’s stupid. But again, there are gray areas. If the mother does what she can, how foolish it is.
A mother can do many other things, which, in my eyes, makes her stupid. He may have a string of bad relationships that precede his children. He may make bad life choices, such as refusing to take medication or work. All these make the mother a fool. Of course, a mother can change her life for the better and redeem herself as a mother. But abuse is unforgivable. So the child should never be sent back or stay with the mother abuse. Then, if the mother simply made some bad choices that did not irreparably harm the child, and she can fix them and take care of her children, she should be given a chance. After all, mothers, even if they are lazy, love their children, drug addicts.
