The teenage years are a big part of growing up. Now they love to explore things, and when they are not allowed to do what they want, they rebel; If parents don’t know how to deal with teenagers it will be a problem. They will be rebellious at home or even at school if the teachers do not know how to handle the agents, their rebellious attitude could benefit them. I had been closely connected with the teens when I was teaching and I was once the advisor of the teen club. I know how it feels with teen agents. They want to prove to adults that they can do it on their own. They do not want to be ordered and under the demands of anyone. They want a mentor who can understand them and give them a chance to prove themselves.
Here I have asked some points which I have drawn as reasons for the rebellious attitude.
The rules are too strict
Some parents or teachers are too strict in enforcing the rules. As if they did not give him the opportunity to reason, they complain or suggest. When they are in higher authority, they must follow and obey the young people. When young people are acting under the strict rule of their elders, they are indignant and rebel. It is good if the adolescent is given the opportunity to make the rules and to accept the consequences that go with it. This would make them responsible for their actions and commit fewer violations. When teen actors are treated like this, sure enough, there’s no reason to rebel against them.
Unreasonable price.
People who are in authority should be punished in a reasonable way for a mistake or a sin committed. It is always necessary to carry out investigations and assess the situation before carrying out the appropriate punishment. Oftentimes, acting teens are not given the opportunity to speak and explain their side. They thought that it was unjust and that what was to come was a rebellion. Young people need consideration and understanding. When we are too hard on our teen agents, things get worse.
They want attention.
Some young actors lack interest. They feel as if no one cares. No one seeks to be honored with things and achievements. Parents are also busy and not really friends to work well. This is very disappointing for them. They want to be known and recommended. In this desperate situation, they will do anything to capture the hearts of the great men in their lives. Some have run away from home. Others will focus on problem activities as they will gain, attention and care from their loved ones.
Parents have great expectations.
There are parents who reach high goals for acting teenagers. They have great ambitions, even if they know what the teenager is capable of achieving. High expectations are often frustrating. Sometimes it has made us inhumane in the sense that we put too much pressure on them to make our dream come true. And when they have failed, they will be reproached, or perhaps thought to be deprived of something. Teens take this treatment inconsiderately which they can do to show a rebellious attitude. We drive them away from us.
By pressure.
When the elderly are with friends of bad authority, they are also forced to do the same. They felt out of place when they did not do what others were doing. Very often they will give more time and priority to their own than to others, and they rebel. They want to belong to the company of friends who will enjoy their company. This talent, it is very important that the young agents lead who they have with them and what kind of friends they have. Be properly guided by parents and other adults.
We are often at fault for acting as rebellious teenagers. Ours is to do why they rebel. These are the things we must remember. Always rewarding to have a close relationship with our teen agents. We must be there to support them and provide advice in a very difficult place. There are some mistakes to be considered and the ability to do the right thing to lead them correctly. No one depresses and criticizes those who have closed communication. For they would be afraid to open things by quarrels or reproaches. If we are kind and intelligent in our dealings, there would be no rebel issues.
