Michael, now 10, looks at his father and says: “If you touch me, I’ll call the police!”
The father then retracts his previous statement and then retires to the television show.
I’ve heard this happening in so many homes across America that I wonder what will happen to the children who have been taken into care by families who have been subjected to stricter scrutiny parent can give every imaginable material thing on Earth, and then they wonder why the child goes in. trouble or fail to spare in the academies.
If someone, in order to look at the truth, has used the results of violence even in the hips of a child, I am sure that violence teaches that violence will come to a conclusion.
When child protection laws took over and families were attacked as a result, parents found their hands tied and as a result children in trouble are now more than ever before.
He did not choose to protect the child, but put down the hammer! This results in parents somewhat losing the battle in which their children are involved.
I remember one day when I hit a deer and the police came. One of my grandchildren kept it in the car seat. I asked the minister to speak to the grandson and let them know that this is false.
The centurion said to me, “to make the boy go away and sit down!” He was surprised when he said this because I thought we couldn’t do this like our parents or grandparents.
I think the hardest part for any parent is putting aside the old way of doing things and taking more time to listen and become a parent that benefits the child.
I know a lot of elders adults are amazed at the behavior of children in today’s society. I will still hear it often; “What is that need is child the ancient meeting behind the woods!
Corporal Punishment It is a far more common and easy tool to inflict punishment on a child. not to repeat the same behavior and spent a lot of time helping the parents to solve that one problem.
The problem with this whole thing is that it has become a major way for parents to get involved in raising their children and even get out. of the government Instead of a few abominations, some parents became defective and because they felt less about their situation or their lives, they controlled less; by this means they would try to obtain control.
But, then the pendulum has swung too far in the other direction and as a result the children are wandering about their structure and even their household goods.
No one can sit in each parent’s house and monitor what is going on 24/7, but if we look around and see the impending events, then we know that parents have the power to free their children.
The children would be governed somewhat by the things, the parents promise to buy them if they are good. But when the parsnip is no longer pursued, it is necessary. The parties begin and the parents reach for the answers! Wait, it’s too late!
Here are some tips that you may want to try if you have lost control of your child and don’t know what to do:
It always depends on the age of the children.
Remember that you are an adult and still a child in your home and under your roof.
If you can talk reasonably with your child, sit them down and do it, you might be surprised by the results.
If it’s a child who’s getting his way and you’re doing this for the first time, good luck, you’re in for a ride. It will take a lot of your time and patience. It will be strong and you will not be given as you always have. You may also want to seek professional help.
Be firm with your child. Now is not the time to give up and reconsider what you see as a sad attitude. Remember, you are trying to recover from the situation.
When using punishment, make it effective.
When using rewards, the same applies.
At some point always make your child know that you really care for them. They can never hear too much of it.
Try to do more with your child/children.
Let the children have some voice. This will allow further sharing of door openers.
Don’t be afraid to let the child see you as a person. Apologize for mistakes because you want to, you are not perfect.
If the child is over ten, let them begin to think for themselves. (sometimes greater, sometimes smaller, according to the degree of maturity).
To withdraw from the mind always or in a hostile situation.
If the child really acted and lied etc. There are several recourses to be taken. You can put the child in violent custody until he calms down.
If they are strong and you cannot do this, you have no choice but to contact the authorities. I know you are afraid to do this because everything has gotten out of control, but you have no other choice at this point. The hardest part of it is seeing your child taken to a juvenile home. Just remember, this situation didn’t just start yesterday and the boy will probably end sooner or later anyways!
Parenting does not come with a rule book and every foster child has many different needs and responds differently to each situation. Don’t stop trying to be a parent, just look for the right way to help your child!
I hope this helped you to hold your son, not from the seat of his panting!
