About a fortnight ago my husband was asked by a close family friend if he would be compatible with the new born. It was asked that they be undermined. My husband said he would think about it. He later decided that the answer was “no”. Not for the reasons of just saying “no”, but for the many reasons to involve our children. Currently, we have six children between us. Three boys and three girls; ages ranging from 8 to 11 months. We are working hard to get more out of our lives by getting rid of debt, getting a new used car, and hoping to get a bigger apartment. These things are not to be taken lightly. Also, when one of our children is sliding and we both want to work, there is no discovery of the passengers. easy business I also take care of the kids especially. Not that my husband does not want to, but that there is some agreement that my husband is prone to some disturbance easily.
One other thought that comes to mind, if anything would happen to my husband and I, I have already chosen by the sponsors. They have no children, but they are very good with them. They have good jobs and a nice apartment. To take in a strange child, and, in the very slim case, to pass the child on to others who do not know the child or the parents, is asking too much. Many services exist as a sponsor. It is not right for Catholics or other religions to attend. Anyone can become a father. The choice is not to be made at random. This is not one of those movies where some of the main characters possess a child without their knowledge. It certainly makes for an interesting story, but it can’t be a thing all the time.
Something to be remembered about the decorum or determination of God the parent;
Education: The addition of the child can provide a suitable education. Children Special needs children can cost more and then you should consider any child who is special. Plus, did the parent opt for the best education or just an average one?
Role Model: Set a good example to the child and guide them in life to become a better person. Keeping yourself in line is important to being a good role model.
Providing food: Especially if the child is on a restricted diet, he is directed to the doctor. Lots of cooking and shopping.
Providing shelter: Having a home for a child to live in and come home to. Or with their room or common room if with other children. More cleaning and chores to follow.
Transportation: Can you take the child from point A to point B? The saving is added to the diet.
Clothes: You can’t run around in silly clothes. Plus, you wash more than usual. Unless you are very good at save money doing shopping and washing your own clothes.
Money: Children are not cheap. You can get some of this figure with the calculator from http://www.babycenter.com/cost-of-raising-child-calculator I calculated for all my children: $1,274,568 with this tool. I believe this does not include the costs of disabled children. The college was public, not private. But then you look at the calculator provided by the USDA and they give you the current age options and it breaks down all the facts. Again, the costs of disabled children were not included. My result was $43,376/year. By the time my son is eleven I will have $477,136. So this proves that the costs of raising children are different. But children are not cheap out of circumstances. Adding another great idea to the mic. Unless the first child is God given to the parent who must consider financial matters. It would be useful before I ventured into this.
Yes, whoever wants to hand over his child to us, I hate to tell you this, but we must respectfully decline. The rest, whose mind is in this matter, must be carefully judged. Because it is not only money that flows, other issues, such as the ability to raise a child, are important things to consider. I know a few other reasons why they should be considered. For one, six kids plus one that isn’t mine, I’m going to be silly.
