Many children are out of control and have attitude problems starting at a very young age, my 6 year old included. As the times change and we listen, it is wrong to punish our children by beating them with caution, who will throw the children of this generation out of government. It seemed to happen at night that my son began to think that he was lord and reigned and slept. And truth be told, when he started school I thought it was just his way of showing that he was no longer a child and was trying to be independent.
She was dressed in cuteness when she came home one day and demanded that she needed dinner already, and she wasn’t going to wait another moment. When I picked my jaw up off the floor and used every ounce of energy I had to choke, I sat him down and explained that he wasn’t a boss. I told him that he should eat dinner with everyone, and that he should eat with the rest, but not a little before. Does this work? Absolutely not. Then the biggest fit boy I’ve ever seen starts yelling, screaming, and running around like someone had tried to kill him.
So what are you doing at the moment like this? I was going to investigate thoroughly. My first thoughts were a school , a military school, or even a Catholic school. As my blood pressure began to subside, and my anger at his behavior turned to concern, I began to I am looking for something that can help me. For the first time I came across a place telling me to take away all their privileges and earn them individually. He did not do this; he learned to live without them.
Then I found a progress chart to give them good habits to work on. This was not what I wanted to try, because I don’t believe that a child is rewarded for doing the right thing, but I gave it a shot. It helped, but I soon realized that if he had made a day or a barrier, the matter had nothing to do with him. He realized that he was finally going to do what he wanted, he was going to do it a little longer. He did not work with him for a long time. We don’t need anything on a day-to-day basis.
Finally, we will try the daily chart. If he has behaved correctly, he has done his job and done what is required, when asked, he can pick a “reward” from the container. The prizes were just cards with an activity to do the next day. These activities include choosing what to have for lunch, what movie we want, what game to play and the like. Although we are currently working on a long-term situation, this has proven to be the best short-term solution for us. Will it work for you and your child? I don’t know, but don’t give up, because there is a solution.
