Breaking up is hard to do. We all know. Sometimes it’s very easy until then, but the moments after are lonely and hard. Sometimes it is a very difficult decision, and although there is help there, there is a huge sense of loss, more often than not. I can’t tell you how many nights I’ve stayed up and wondered why I ended my last relationship, but I’m in a better place now – we both are. However, those nights are part of the movement. Indeed, many of us in these moments have made a pact with the whole world to protect him. Enter the Law of Attraction.
The Law of Attraction has only three steps, and one is not your responsibility. Asking for him or her back in your life, happy, healthy, and completely madly in love again completes the first. The universe responds to your request in two steps. Taking the third step is the hardest part. This is where so many of us fail, or worse, succeed, but for the wrong reasons. The problem with using Secret to attract people is that it’s like building a piece without instructions. you can get it in the end, but you don’t dare to put any value on it – it is simply not worth it.
If you’ve ever been rejected, what he told you in the closing arguments of that last debate was your fault. There was something about you that didn’t fit with that person. The good news is, you can pick yourself up and build a better you now. He fell in love with you for one reason or another, and you still possess those qualities. Charisma, confidence, passion – these are the qualities and vibrations that attract people to you. Before you really want to get back to those properties that you lost.
Be careful to know exactly what emotions you are looking for in the second chance. Actions are motivated by only two main emotions: Love or Fear. It is very difficult to make a move when he is trying to attract from behind, changing from fear to love. Often, when we are in that grace period, after a break we decide we want to get him or her back. Until then, it was a fear. We fear that we will never find another person who will love us again. We fear that no one will ever fill the void that is left in us. We just want so badly to be ‘whole’ again. Without fear, we begin to assemble the armoire from the proverbial IKEA. Little by little they begin to agree. When all is said and done, you’re left with all your efforts in something that never sustains a burning love. Even if he returns, nothing changes. It’s like bringing back a mask – a hollow version of your former love. The relationship rocks…again.
When you truly accept and admit your fear, you can let go. Sincere love for yourself, and the courage to embrace your strengths and weaknesses, is what makes you move forward in the right direction. The whole game is self-reflection. If you consciously decide that you want him because you love him, and you feel worthy of his love, then put it out into the universe. Your happiness, confidence, and renewed faith in yourself will lead to your desires. You are not bound by fear this time around. You are caught in love. Feeling love will attract more love to you. I believe it was 100.
Does it run into a career and, although the breakup was justified, or the relationship fell apart, or it looks great? You never thought that you would consider getting this person back, but as you start talking, you can’t help but be attracted to him again. Maybe you know that she is in a ‘good place’, or that it really is ‘life together’. What was once an old flame, now you want to cook together again. You were invited again because he had stopped being an obstacle in his life. Confidence and love for yourself, without pride, draws you.
The law of attraction is so instrumental to what your heart desires most. Learn to play this instrument. Play for love. Play it for money. Play for victory. If you’re playing this game to return your lost love, make sure you’re doing it for the right reasons. In your heart and in your head in the right place, and the ignorance of the teachers will not keep you from building your dreams.
