As we all know, the teenage years can be rough. When the pressure is equal to the changes in the body, it can be equally painful in the back. However, somehow we all overcome this trying time – be it a family member or even a friend. Until the eleifend, no one can do homework. As a mentor to girls, I’ve used a few methods along the way that have helped mine. little sisters
1) Finding a real role model
There is one big problem that is before the general society. Let’s face it, we have the program “America” Next Top Model as you think to do it You have to be a thin pancake and We don’t help when you have “idols” out there. There is a difference between thin and healthy. Girls need to focus on what the role model is and how they look.
There are other monsters of these girls out there, not just celebrities in particular, who do amazing things every day, and are of every body shape and image. Take for example. He is not a thin gem and he predicted that he had imperfect teeth and was fine with it. She is very talented and giving back to people. Remind girls that fame and fortune don’t always mean a good role model. Finding a down-to-earth role model will give her a confidence boost to accept who she is.
2) Tell him to define his style
Have you seen the outfits that are “in style” for Spring and Summer of 2008? Some of them are just impossible unless you’re perfectly toned and pretty flawless. What do they say about girls? Those who care about the big secretives in the fashion industry say they are popular. Style should be about confidence, not cute boys. Tell him that younger flower girl dresses often attract wrong men. When the elderly values a woman they value what looks good and should not “sell” that appearance for a relationship. Make sure he knows that confidence is about feeling good about what you’re doing, not looking for good about what you’re doing.
3) Embrace your dreams
Perhaps his dreams seem strange or impossible to you or to others. You can’t get your personal feelings involved in your dreams or aspirations. I will set them on the charge of repudiating them. I will share with you a mini-story about my mother who was not supported in her dreams. Back in 1967, my mother got an offer to go to a school that was great for journalists and other writers. Two men came to her at her house and answered her mother and father to meet the door, she told them to leave and immediately told her that the weekend was not written. This haunted her for the rest of her life and still, when you remember her you could see the soul from her eyes. as dreams turn into desolation.
Don’t think his career plan is attractive but let him see for himself if it’s what he wants. Take it! If you can help her in any way, do so. If it means driving to an audition 2 hours away and you can afford it, by all means show your support. When he feels he can do what he dreams of, he shoots for the stars.
4) Listen, listen, listen
Puberty in general is chaos. Of course, young people may have it easy compared to you, but for them it is the most difficult time in life. Hormones go whack, her body changes and stresses that we adults don’t see as “too big of a deal” in retrospect. If she’s having a rough day, listen to her, but don’t offer advice unless she asks for it and what you can offer is mostly positive input. As a mentor, I have seen many kids feel that their parents just don’t listen. Not listening to them means “my parents ignore me” and ignoring no child to feel special at all. In fact, sometimes they question their dignity and, as we have seen, sometimes this feeling of no love from their parents can lead to dangerous and traumatic behavior.
5) Affection
This can be said about everyone in general. Every age longs for the feelings of love. Simply love your child. If he does something excellent in school, praise him. My father was afraid to say “I love you” to most of his children, except my oldest daughter. Not too mushy and these girls know that they are loved. If they have messed something up, they are still confirmed to him. Give him the line old time “Next time” let’s make it better. It may seem cheesy to you, but a girl in a time of chaos will appreciate it and give her the encouragement she needs to do better again.
While there are many other ways to evaluate young girls to promote them, these are the five signs that I personally use when dating young girls. While I have lost track of several of my sisters who I still keep in touch with, they are happy that they had someone there with them through theirteenage years. Remember, even a little self-esteem can go a long way.
