Have you ever seen a little boy fall down, or hit something on the head? The first thing they do is look at you for a reaction. If you teach yourself to laugh, the child will laugh instead of crying. However, your instinct is to worry (do you hurt?) and immediately the child will start to complain of a white knee or forehead ulcer.
I may not tell you this outright, but it’s not exactly known. What’s more, the children are the same.
Babies cannot walk, and have not yet reached that awkward stage of stumbling or stumbling to their feet. Before you get to that point, you’ve already learned how to control your reaction. This scam is the most important thing you can do when you take baby care.
Babies only have two ways to communicate with you because they can’t talk yet. (Even when they coon, they tell you wonderful stories.) If the baby is happy, or gassy, or ready to poop…they tell you with a smile. It is up to you to understand what message they are conveying. (As mentioned, especially with small children, the bigger the smile, the more likely either of these is).
Everything else happens when your baby is crying. Babies can be content themselves, surrounded by brightly colored objects or sitting in a swing. (My 3 month old son loves to watch cartoons from 9 to 11 while he is clean in the morning). You know they are content when they are either at rest or agitated. yet when they cry, something is troubling. It is up to you to diagnose and fix the problem.
learn to control your actions
First and foremost…no matter what you do or think about doing, it is not more important than your baby. So don’t worry about it. If you are more passionate, consider this. What does your child see when he looks at your face?
Like when they trust you to tell them if their knees are funny or painful, they now trust you. to tell them how bad their problem is. If you look unhappy, your baby will automatically assume the worst and vocalize his discomfort. If your baby cries more, and longer… it will in turn make you unhappy… and the long tennis game of unhappiness will begin .
Babies don’t yet have our emotions. Everything is either happy or sad. No matter what, your baby will always have a happy face when he looks at you. If it’s absolutely fake, then it’s fake. But a smile, but a big smile.
You will immediately notice a change in your baby’s behavior.
Sometimes, you may have what people call a ‘difficult baby’. (How would you feel if everyone treated you as if you were difficult.) Maybe a smile doesn’t make a reflection, bear with me. There are some things to learn. The second way to have a happier baby is pretty obvious.
Find and fix the problem
Many parents think that if one of the few by crying means. So after compressing the diaper, and the baby rejected the feed, he didn’t want to burp, and he didn’t fall asleep... now what? You can’t figure out what’s wrong. You even control your frustration and give big warm smiles… but nothing seems to work!
It could be a tag that rubs your baby the wrong way. The hair wrapped around his thumb could be the one driving them nuts. Most controversially, your baby just wants attention.
When a baby is crying, the second easiest way to soothe them is to hold them close to your body, hold their chin on your shoulder, and just hold them. You can sit and watch tv, you can walk around (my loves walk and dance with me in the afternoon after eating at Passions). Babies love physical human contact.
This is a controversial issue because there is a widespread belief that a baby can pay too much attention to spoils. It doesn’t sound smart to carry a baby around every moment, and I doubt anyone ever will. But if your child wants attention…give it to them.
Love is a human necessity, like food and water. We would be empty shells if not for the love that makes us alive…or even the desire for love. You can never spoil a baby by loving them, but you can spoil a person by thinking they need a love card to go around.
Babies have a different way of communicating with you. If they clearly ‘feel better there’, they can know if they are ‘cold or hot’ when it comes to finding a problem. If you are in bed with your baby and you have tried standing, lying down, walking, sitting. they will kick their feet. they will cry louder. This means ‘cold!’ Look at something else.
Try lying comfortably with your back against the arm of the bed, knees bent and your feet against a pillow. Place your baby at your feet, facing you. Show him smiling, happy face, and arms around him. They move their feet around. (If they are gassy, rolling their legs and pushing their knees into their stomach helps the gas come out).
This is another kind of attention, very similar to ‘love’. This is the story. You can include stuffed animals or puppets, rattles that make noise, and I highly recommend glasses.
He speaks
Your baby loves your voice. Whether you are feeding them, changing them, playing with them, or putting them to sleep, you need to talk to your baby. very often This technique is very similar to why you will laugh. Keep your voice to a ‘happy tone’.
Of course you run to say things. Reading the book clearly will help. You can change your voice with different characters to your child’s amusement. You can call your plans for the week, your shopping list... you can tell your whole life. Babies don’t what you say, but love how you say it.
